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	<title>Comments on: Ask Reecie Advice Column: Should I Date My Ex&#8217;s Friend?</title>
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		<title>By: Repping Beantown blog</title>
		<link>http://hmblog.wordpress.com/2007/07/17/ask-reecie-advice-letter-should-i-date-my-exs-friend/#comment-25823</link>
		<dc:creator>Repping Beantown blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jul 2007 01:37:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Girl I have been visiting this site for a minute. This is new ... I' am come more often when I need advise lol!  Big ups to all three of you with this site.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Girl I have been visiting this site for a minute. This is new &#8230; I&#8217; am come more often when I need advise lol!  Big ups to all three of you with this site.</p>
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		<title>By: Reecie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Reecie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jul 2007 18:18:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"I’ve seen something like that where both ex’s just ganged up and spread all sorts of ‘personal’ rumors."

That is something to consider in making her decision. But...if this is post-college crowd we're talking about then he say, she say stuff isn't as big of an issue.

Taurean you're hilarious! You think it's less hoe-ish to sleep with the guy then deny than it is to have an actual relationship? lol

Senjoe...wordpress has a span detector. I thought it was automatic so I don't know what to tell ya!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I’ve seen something like that where both ex’s just ganged up and spread all sorts of ‘personal’ rumors.&#8221;</p>
<p>That is something to consider in making her decision. But&#8230;if this is post-college crowd we&#8217;re talking about then he say, she say stuff isn&#8217;t as big of an issue.</p>
<p>Taurean you&#8217;re hilarious! You think it&#8217;s less hoe-ish to sleep with the guy then deny than it is to have an actual relationship? lol</p>
<p>Senjoe&#8230;wordpress has a span detector. I thought it was automatic so I don&#8217;t know what to tell ya!</p>
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		<title>By: senoje</title>
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		<dc:creator>senoje</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jul 2007 05:45:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry to interrupt.... HM I need your help.  I have a friend who uses Wordpress and is getting TONS of spam.  How do you prevent it here on HM?  Is there a specific plugin for wordpress or what?  You have my email address, so uhh feel free to email me or reply on a post.  Thanks!

Over and out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry to interrupt&#8230;. HM I need your help.  I have a friend who uses WordPress and is getting TONS of spam.  How do you prevent it here on HM?  Is there a specific plugin for wordpress or what?  You have my email address, so uhh feel free to email me or reply on a post.  Thanks!</p>
<p>Over and out.</p>
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		<title>By: taurean</title>
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		<dc:creator>taurean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jul 2007 03:29:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ok im not "Dear Reecie" or anything ,lol But as i read this i was thinking that it would make her seem like a hoe.. as if she's running through all his friends... (and  u know thats how they will view the situation also) so i think for that reason females should just leave friends of friends alone, cause it will be hard for her to get respect from either  the ex or the new bf...  

So my advice would be for her to just have sex with him once to get it out of her system ... if it's ever brought up, then lie about it and move on.. that way she doesnt look like a hoe cause she denied it and no one can prove if its really just a rumor or not and she get's to eat her cake to (even if it was just for one night) problem solved!  ; )  lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok im not &#8220;Dear Reecie&#8221; or anything ,lol But as i read this i was thinking that it would make her seem like a hoe.. as if she&#8217;s running through all his friends&#8230; (and  u know thats how they will view the situation also) so i think for that reason females should just leave friends of friends alone, cause it will be hard for her to get respect from either  the ex or the new bf&#8230;  </p>
<p>So my advice would be for her to just have sex with him once to get it out of her system &#8230; if it&#8217;s ever brought up, then lie about it and move on.. that way she doesnt look like a hoe cause she denied it and no one can prove if its really just a rumor or not and she get&#8217;s to eat her cake to (even if it was just for one night) problem solved!  ; )  lol</p>
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		<title>By: Ave.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ave.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jul 2007 01:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have no problem with ex's being in a relationship with friends/family only if I'm in a relationship myself. I know that's probably selfish as hell, but it's the truth. When I'm single, hell no. 

She should be careful though. If she and the new dude end their relationship on bad terms, then she'll have 2 people not liking her. I've seen something like that where both ex's just ganged up and spread all sorts of 'personal' rumors. But Reecie, you gave some good advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have no problem with ex&#8217;s being in a relationship with friends/family only if I&#8217;m in a relationship myself. I know that&#8217;s probably selfish as hell, but it&#8217;s the truth. When I&#8217;m single, hell no. </p>
<p>She should be careful though. If she and the new dude end their relationship on bad terms, then she&#8217;ll have 2 people not liking her. I&#8217;ve seen something like that where both ex&#8217;s just ganged up and spread all sorts of &#8216;personal&#8217; rumors. But Reecie, you gave some good advice.</p>
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