Hey HM readers, I’m going to let you in on a little secret…I’ve ALWAYS wanted to do an advice column! Since it is a really slow day/week on the site…I figured why not start now?
In my life…I’m the go-to person for no holds barred/straight shooting advice for practically everyone I know. People are confident that I will be honest and straightforward whenever they come to me…and I’m always right! lol. Now…I have to state for the record that I am by no means a professional…just a person that knows how to decipher any situation and offer up the best solution possible.
Now that I have sufficiently tooted my own horn…this is where you come in. If you want an objective opinion about any situation in your life, then I’m the perfect person to ask! Beefing with your friends? Want pointers for how to approach a secret crush? Confused about where your life is going? Whatever your problem…feel free to ask me.
Here’s how: Shoot me an email at askreecie@gmail.com about your problem. I will respond to it and post the best letters and my responses on the site…of course keeping all names completely confidential. HM readers will then have a chance to chime in with their thoughts. Whether or not your letter gets posted, you will get a response.
So folks…don’t be shy…get to writing!
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Reecie
thehonorable
My wife is mad cute and all, but she’s dumbier then a box of rocks.. What can I do to overlook the stupidity?
lol…boy you’re crazy!
My best advice is to take an interest in whatever topics she is bright enough to talk about. Stick to pop culture topics like tv, music, movies, and you will always have a stimulating conversation. Granted…it’s not groundbreaking or particularly deep stuff, but at least you will be entertained.
Thanks Reecie…
I really like this guy, we “dated” in college but it was the wrong timing. Anyway we’ve been out of school for 5 years now and still keep in contact. I really like him and he has all the qualities that I would want in a future husband, but I don’t know how he feels about me. I always think about him and haven’t seen him in over 3 years. We talk about having kids together all the time and how we want our family relationship to be. Here’s the kicker, we live in two different states, thousands of miles seperate us. How do I tell him how I really feel?
Well, Why Me, Reecie’s on vaca…while she’s gone, here’s a male’s perspective on it…well, rather, MY perspective on it!
Honestly, life’s too short to be dibblin and dabblin..we’re all grown adults. I understand you may harbor some trepidation towards expressing your feelings but its like this: eitha fess up and speak ya mind or move on…People spend a life-time tryna find a connection and you feel like you have it right now so whatcha waiting for? Scared of rejection? Well, if that’s the case then deal with it. lol.
I may sound really unsympathetic but I really am not. I just feel it’s important to be direct and not play tit for tat. You gotta be a go-getter in life and hiding behind emotions is child’s play, in my opinion.
Now, my personal opinion is you just let it be known and go from there. Now, there’s something to be said about ole boi as well. I mean if ya’ll have conversed about having kids together, why/how the hyell haven’t ya’ll dealt with step 1…dating. lol. seems like discussions and planning are jumping the course. It’s all good to plan together but if you don’t have priorities in place then you’re wasting your time and energy on “hope!” Hope is cool but its gotta be followed by action.
By what you stated, you’ve gotta be at least 25 years old or hittin that mark. If that’s the case, get ya grown woman on and tell ole boi how u feel…Also, i’m of the frame of mind that dudes aint as dumb as many women think’em to be. If a dude wants something, they go out and get it, regardless of the obstacles. When real men want sommin, they get it or try their hardest to.
If he been talkin and soupin ya head up about kids and family and hasn’t made moves to date, build, and go through the necessary steps to create a stable relationship after all these years, then it must mean that he’s either scared, not ready, or not interested. Talk is cheap, especially as a man….
Get it crackin!
Hmm Thesis as the male Dear Abby?? GTFOH.. LOL
Comedy! ha
Check my response here: http://hmblog.wordpress.com/2007/05/31/ask-reecie-advice-column-letter-from-why-me/
I have a problem me and and ex - boyfriend started chill and talk again (not in a relationship) after 1yr break up from a 2 yr relationship. however when we chilled, he stared bringing his friends around. when hanging with his friends i had much more fun with them then him. he became jealous and would pout and sulk when we hung out. while we chilled i started to develop a little crush on one of his friends.i even tried to hook him up with a friend of mine but she wasn’t feeling him the least and i ended up talking to him on her phone or through her. he sensed this and got jealous every time we chilled however i in no way made these feelings that obvious besides asking about him once in a while. then one night me , my ex , his friends and my friends chilled at my house . while there, the persuasion of liquor got me to say some things i regret to his friend. After that day his friend expressed some feelings that he’s on the same page as i am. this further complicated the situation because im stuck on if i should avoid my feelings to purse a anything with his friend due to loyalty to my ex, or just go with how i feel and see how it plays out being that we aren’t in a relationship? Please help Me ASAP!!
Check my response here:
http://hmblog.wordpress.com/2007/07/17/ask-reecie-advice-letter-should-i-date-my-exs-friend/
hey mrs.reecie if u have a myspace can i add you???..if theres no problem